throughout my (first) pregnancy i felt quite insecure as he never told me things were ok. When i went into labor one week early he was on leave and hadnt told me. I was in labor for 36 hours until he came to the hospital, when his leave had finished. I had significant blood loss in labor, which my gp picked up on 6 weeks post birth and organised an iron fusion. I felt like Neil should have been more aware of this. Ultimately my baby was delivered and he stitched me up well, but it wasn't a good experience.