well Pam and John were very helpful, l had bought a lovebird somewhere else. Took this bird to pam and John, and straight away john told me he was a she, then to my shock he told me my bird was sick.John said she was still a good bird and told me what meds to give her.Bought another female, now they are mates, healthy, happy.John talked to me for ages about the birds and helped with answering all my questions.Wish there were more people that are as helpful. He even put my bird in with others to test temperament,hows that for service and reassurance . Many thanks John and Pam.